Don't Live Alone

I used to live alone. I do many activities that I can do them alone. Jogging in the morning, watching videos, listening musics, reading, etc. I live alone until the age of 33. But I can tell you, no matter happy when you are alone, it will be happier if you have your own family.

Then I get married. Don't be too picky in choosing your wife. Sometimes you have many excellent criteria such as she must be very beautiful, intelligent, rich, kind, etc. But when you met the girl with your criteria, she doesn't like you. You are not her type!

Of course we must be selective such as she must be good looking. But not too pretty and not to ugly either. Just a little bit above medium. She doesn't has to be a genius like Einstein. Rank 10th of 30 is good enough.

But more important is, she must be kind. If she is angry, she will not beat you or say things that hurting you. It's the most important thing. She doesn't cheat on you. Just find a girl with modest dress. Not with a very sexy dress as if she want to invite all the men in the world to her room.

When you have kids, it's the most happiest thing in your life. You have a successor that will live even when you die.

If you don't have children of your own, just adopt kids from the orphanage. They could take care of you when you are old. I have seen a single old lady who had a very big house but live alone. She died alone. Her neighbor find her days after she died.

You have to believe you have the almighty God in your side. God that protects you. God that provides you everything if you are trying. God that always be with you even when all your loved ones are leaving you.